Truth Bomb: (n) A fact spoken in clear, easy to understand terms and without bias; A fact or piece of knowledge that, when told to a listener, is devastating to the listener's argument or world view.
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We're all taught early on that lying is bad. As kids we learn to do it anyway. I see my own 3 and 5-year old lie. I mean I hear it too, but really, let's be honest, we can see it. It's usually for one of a few reasons:
1. They know they been told they should NOT do/have something, but their desire to do/have that thing is way stronger than their ability to control or postpone their desire.
2. They don't want me or my husband to be upset with them, so they do what they can to avoid that outcome and those feelings of us being sad or disappointed, them feeling sad or ashamed...while still doing/having what they shouldn't.
Lying really is just a tool, isn't it? It's a tool we use from early on for self-preservation. We want to continue with the status quo (what people think of us, what we think of ourselves) while shaking it up at the same time. And it takes many forms:
When I was little I adored the series Anne of Green Gables. There is a moment when Anne, walking with her teacher Ms. Stacey, find herself in a pickle and wrongfully accused. She struggles with how to deal with it, and Ms. Stacey tells her, "No matter what anyone accuses you of, in the end, the truth will set you free". And it's true, the truth will set your free.
It just might hurt a little first.
Because truth can be both liberating and painful. It often starts as a flutter and we can take a long time to acknowledge it. Other times it hits hard and fast, like a freight train. If we pay attention to our bodies when we speak, hear, or read a truth, we find it is very much a visceral feeling. It might be a pit in our stomach, a nervous twitch, a headache, likely accompanied by a shallow breath, or even a holding of our breath if it's the painful variety. The liberating truths tend to feel light, effervescent, warming. I think we all agree that feels so much better!
We can think of Satya, or Truthfulness, in two ways:
1. Speaking our truth
2. Living our truth
Speaking our truth means we have a strong sense of integrity. We mean what we say and say what we mean. Think of the phrase "she's a straight shooter". We often appreciate our friends and family who don't mince their words. They're not rude, they are just honest. In Spanish this translates as "Tiene palabra" literally "she/he has word", figuratively "her word is good, solid, and has truth". We trust these people because they are consistent with their word, they follow through on it. They don't just say "it's fine" when it really isn't. They trust their thoughts, feelings and words completely, so they express them, even when it's a little scary. They don't lie because it creates a gap or separation from their inner self.
Living our truth means integrity too, but across all areas of our life. We mean what say, and we act and think in agreement with our truth. We trust our choices, we choose our thoughts. We live out our truth and it fits, it feels good. When we go along with something that doesn't feel right, or do something for someone else's sake that doesn't sit well with us, when we try to fit someone else's map onto our own, it's like a tight shoe. It pinches, hurts if we wear it too much, and sometimes causes damage.
And we know, right?
We know when something doesn't feel right. Our gut doesn't lie. With good reason we say things like "trust your gut" or when someone asks us for advice we say "what does your gut tell you?" That's the seat of our Emotional Guidance System. It is literally our second brain, influencing our mood and mental health, determining the strength of our immune system, feeding our bodies in every sense of the word.
Listen to your gut, both on and off the mat.
How do you apply this on the mat?
Listen to your body throughout your practice. Become aware of your breath. Stop and take a resting pose or water break when you need it. Push when it feels right to do so. Be truthful with yourself about your limitations, whether that day or longer term as you're working on challenging poses.
How do you apply this off the mat?
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What about Satya resonates the most for you? Share below and let us know! Together we thrive.
I'm Tonia, a Midwesterner transplanted to Colorado. I'm a mom of two lovely littles, a yoga instructor, DIY-er, teacher, stay at home mom, and a doTERRA Wellness Advocate. I blog about a little bit of all of these and everything in between!
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